The Miracle of Connection



It’s a miracle when
one act of
communication
takes place.

We take it for granted.
“Hello,” and
“Goodbye,”
but what about the words
we're not sure how to say
and stubbornly
try?

Every syll-a-ble
we learn is from someone
close by.

The voice of a friend
or the first time you heard
your grandma
speak to your mom
in a way that made sense,
when she smiled
so you figured you knew now
what to do.

You got it.
So did she.
And what about him?

“This flower is red,”
that much is true. But
“This flower is soft,”
could be misconstrued.
“I was talking about color,”
she shrugs as she sits.
He insists,
“A flower is petals
and my first Valentine’s kiss.”

How many words
for one simple
thing?
A moment remembered?
An idea flying through?

And so you see,
even flowers mislead.
If they can
(uh-oh)
what chances do we
have to receive
or to give
in the way

your experience taught
and your family still chooses,
and what of the friends
that come and go,
and the fights someone wins
and another one loses?

Brick by brick
the schema is built,
and we climb to the top

and fall
until

what I said
is what you heard
or close enough
to be understood.

—Iris Lennox