Tag: Bird

  • The First Time


    "When someone shows you who they are,
    believe them."

    I'll try.

    Believe them the first time,
    before an accumulation of words
    or glances
    offerings and
    reactions—
    retractions
    or silence.

    I'll try.

    But what about trust?

    Projection can be a weapon
    unfair and blind
    but so can trust.
    So, what do we do with trust?

    We've been told:
    trust but verify
    give to get
    extend until there is a reason

    not
    to.

    Surely, to give is to offer your
    vulnerability
    to open with an invitation to see—
    the world through safety
    and people through intimacy.

    Exhale.

    But what if they stab—
    not with iron but with
    words
    or quiet
    or gossip
    or lies?

    A lesson
    wrapped in the progression
    of choosing to trust and learning
    wisdom.

    And what of the mirror?
    Is it still true that we are
    who we are
    every time?
    The first time?

    Time here is brief.
    Experience anything
    and you'll see—
    they and
    you and
    we
    can be the same
    the first time,
    the second time,
    and again until the end,
    or

    we
    and you
    and me
    can become.

    So, believe who they are
    but be gentle, too.
    They can change.

    So can you.

    —Iris Lennox